R-E-S-P-E-C-T: More Than a Word

Respect isn't a feeling — it's what you do when someone else needs it most.

Theme: R-E-S-P-E-C-T
Verse: "Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others." — Philippians 2:3–4

There's an old saying that goes something like this: "If you try to do something and it doesn't work, try doing it the way your parents taught you."

There's a lot of truth in that.

Growing up, one of the most important lessons my parents taught my sister and me was this: above all else, treat people with respect. They believed that if respect became one of our core values, many other things in life would naturally fall into place.

So what does it really mean to respect others?

R — Recognize

Take time to notice others and appreciate how they contribute. Remember people's names when you are introduced. That simple act alone can put you miles ahead of many of your peers and lets others know they matter.

E — Empathy

Don't be quick to judge. Put yourself in someone else's shoes and seek first to understand before trying to be understood. Everyone is carrying something you may know nothing about.

S — Sincerity

Most people can spot insincerity from a mile away. When you encourage someone or offer a compliment, make it genuine. Sincerity builds trust, strengthens relationships, and reinforces positive behavior.

P — Patience

We live in a hurry-up world where many of us struggle to sit through a 30-second commercial. Showing patience in your interactions with others not only lowers your own stress level, but it can also give someone else the opportunity to grow — and perhaps teach you something in the process.

E — Excellence

Strive to do things as well as you can. Excellence does not mean perfection; it means giving your best effort every time. Excellence is also a form of respect — respect for yourself, your work, and the people who depend on you. Seek help when needed and work each day to become a little better.

C — Compassion

Compassion builds on empathy by moving understanding into action. It's one thing to understand someone's situation; it's another to step in and help when you can.

T — Trust

My uncle has a saying: "Assume positive intent in others." While someone may make a poor decision that impacts the group, chances are they are not trying to harm the effort. Trust does not mean ignoring mistakes; it means choosing not to assume the worst before understanding the situation.

When we put these qualities together, RESPECT becomes more than a word — it becomes a way of treating people and a way of living.

This week, challenge yourself to remember one new person's name, show patience in a difficult moment, or encourage someone who needs it. You may be surprised by the difference a little more RESPECT can make.

Give it a shot.

Have a GREAT week — and maybe listen to a little Aretha Franklin!

Adapted from Lead with Faith, Play with Purpose by Andy Dooley